Saturday, January 14, 2006
This post is dedicated to germs and jing.
-O1-Everyone's thinking differs.
You might think being a cop is cool but to another person it would sound too dangerous and silly.
There is a need to respect people's opinions. Afterall, you can't expect everyone to agree with you.
-O2-Sadly i myself have to admit there's no "Perfect Man".
And do you know, that a guy can really love you but end up marrying someone else?
It sounds weird to me but i've heard of this many a time.
So that made me re-think the definition of Love.
Maybe you should, too.
-O3-Ha ha! Many people marry for the sake of marrying!
-O4-It is a FACT that men LIKE VARIETY and NEW STUFF.
Just take it as gender differences, okay?
And if a relationship turns stale.. You can't blame the guy. Or the girl.
They both took each other for granted, and stopped being nice to each other.
First date - Young, sweet puppy love!
Tenth date - Both get closer, relationship seems stable.
xx date - Everyone forgets about how much small little stuff matters.
xxx date - Both get so used to each other. Guy starts looking at pretty girls on the street. Girl starts to feel neglected.
Then... you get the *yawn!* break up, then patch, then break again scenario.
I've seen some relationships which were so beyond hope, they break and patch EVERYDAY.
"I love you.. Dear.. I'm sorry.. I promise Blahblah yaddah yaddah"
Next day..
"You're really wasting my time and I HATE YOU. DON'T EVER TALK TO ME."
-O5-Yes, it is wrong to have an aim to break up marriages.
But cos i know germs, she phrased it wrongly lah.
She meant.. if a relationship is already stale.. no point holding unto each other.
-O6-Jing... Why do you think her parents are still together?
They have to stay together for the kids, of course.
I give you a bit of reality.. Frankly, my parents are on bad terms.
My 2 elder sisters have to step in, and my mum actually sees a psychiatrist coz she really wants to divorce my father!
I was SO SHOCKED to hear that. My mum accidently spilled the beans while we were quarreling one day.
You think all marriages are always happy? No... The novelty wears out.
Unless you say, The couple can treat each other as well as they first started out dating FOR LIFE, then that got to be one happy marriage.
Otherwise, no.
-O7-All girls want to be loved, pampered, feel wanted and safe.
Many children don't get love from their parents, so they look for love outside home.
That's for my case. I told my mum before, and she was terribly upset.
She never knew that although she does love me, i couldn't feel the love on my side.
She thought that by giving me what i want, that's called love. Sure it is. But there's simply no bond between us.
-O8-This is important.
Never, ever inflict pressure on someone else to agree with you or your thinking.
*of course if u're in sales then it's differnt*
By doing so, you're silently killing your friendship/relationship.
If you feel pressurized to be around someone, obviously you won't want to be near them.
I don't want this to happen to any of us.
It's just a silly misunderstanding.
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